After a death, or planning ahead
A clear plan for what comes after a death.
Tell us what happened or what you want to prepare. Andwithyou shows what matters first, what can wait, and who can help, one step at a time.
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Tasks, documents, decisions and the people helping, shown with example information.
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- 11free toolsCost estimates, death certificate counts and funeral home questions, ready in minutes.Open the tools
- 3,817local provider listingsFuneral homes, cemeteries, florists, attorneys and grief support. No paid placement.Browse providers
- 46government record sourcesWhere to order certificates, file probate and claim benefits, by state and county.Find your office
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Answers you can use in the next few minutes.
Each tool gives you a number, a checklist or a list of questions to bring to your next call.
- 2 minFirst 72 Hours ChecklistA short list of what to do now, what can wait and what not to decide yet.Open
- 1 minDeath Certificate CalculatorA starting number of certified copies, with the reasoning behind it.Open
- 2 minFuneral Home Question GeneratorA printable question set so no one signs before they understand the price.Open
- 2 minFamily Document Readiness ScoreA score and the two or three gaps worth closing first.Open
A short guided estimate of what this is likely to cost.
Andwithyou asks a short set of questions, skips what does not apply, and ends with a planning range you can take to any provider.
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Support in the first days after a loss.
We’ll help you understand what needs attention now and what can wait, so you can take things at your own pace.
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